“I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.”
A quote i like so much….!!
Mayb u need 2 read it more than once 2 get the idea,…but once u get the meaning,…u’ll find out that it’s a common reason 4 misunderstandings among ppl…!!
When sb speaks 2 the other he means sth by his words,…4 sure the other hears those words but mayb he doesn’t get the point the way the speaker intended 2 transfer them ,….the conversation is over ,…but if the listener misunderstood the speech ,..he may make wrong judgements,…build wrong ideas,..or even take a situation from the speaker based on the wrong info he received…& the worst that he may keep it for along time …...all that coz he didn’t realize that he missed the point…!!!
I guess it happens daily with evb,…with whoever we deal with,… colleagues ,…friends,…best friends ,..even with family…!!
4 sure evb said one day :”I didn’t mean it that way..!”
Mayb coz some times the speaker isn’t clear enough,….or the listener isn’t wise enough,…or mayb coz those who r in the conversation have previous bad ideas about each other which make’m think the wrong way & misunderstand the real meaning….!!
I believe it’s a prob with all ppl,…it can’t be eliminated completely,…but it can be reduced if ppl think a little more b4 saying & after hearing anything…!!!
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