Sunday, February 01, 2009

Facebook Driven Life..!





since the day facebook was launched,it grew bigger & bigger each day with more ppl registering ,starting groups,creating applications,...etc.

for sure anyth can b used wisely or in a crazy way according to the person's control on it, but as i notice many ppl around using facebook as if it were the center of the life i just call it a "facebook driven life"...!!

if u look to some1 of this type of ppl u'll find him starting his day opening the browser to check facebook.
he searches for a catchy statement to write as the status wishing to get as much comments as possible from others .u may find silly statements changing frequently just to satisfy an inner need for ppl attention,appreciation,sympathy or anyth else he lacks.
u may find some1 announcing that his "soba3 regly el so3'ayar beyewga3ny" as his status,..& his friends just reply to wish him speed recovery or even make fun of him.
u may find som1 writing hidden messages for another friend,announcing sth,cursing some1,revealing a feeling,releasing anger...etc.

u also find him craving for any comment on his wall or anyth in his profile to comment back,...& if there's nth he just plays some games,..take quizzes,..add applications to feel that he made sth new,...till he finds some1 online to chat or till he gets a comment to read & reply...!!

he always adds albums & photos ,& u find him waiting desperately for more comments on his latest photos-sometimes this is due to an inner lack of confidence or just a search for popularity-.the photos comments is a crazy part in most cases & it always makes me laugh or even feel sick of the triviality it shows.

if it's a girls' community,..u find a certain style of comments such as :
"ooooooh my god ,u look so gorgeous" (even if she believes that the other one looks ugly)
"oh sweetie,...miss u so much" (even if she can't stand her)
"luf u,..muaaah" (i hate this kind of sound effects...yuk)
"Woooooooow,...u look like an angel" (even if she looks like a real devil without horns)
"Thaaaaaaaanx for ur sweeeeeet words,..kisses" (so what? ,...words r free,...dnt just live in the lie)
"u really look cute,...miss u mooooot" (so what about dialing her phone no. if u really miss her..!!?)

on the other hand if it's a boys' community,..u find another style of comments such as:
"eih ya maaaaan,...gamda a7'er 7aga "
"ah ya 3am ba2a,...maaaashy ;)"
"eshta ya prince"
"c u so soon dude"
& more of the vulgar & tough comments i dnt know for sure,..but anyway it's a matter of saying anyth about ayth ,..just to comment @ satisfy real & virtual needs....!!

actually y may find obsessed ppl hurrying to take photos for themselves anywhere & anytime just to add new albums & get more comments ,...& if a person is more & more obsessed with facebook u may find sth like "fatakat lovers" group or "mido"fun page....just to show their photos,& hear flattering from others,...how silly...!!!!

so this was just a part of the "facebook driven life",... it is not the worst case,..& some of it is acceptable & normal sometimes,...& we all use facebook for different purposes...but it can be bad if some1 is really obsessed with it that he sticks to it most of the time & seeks a satisfaction for his inner needs through it...!!!

so it's all about balance & wise use of anyth..!