i guess all the ppl must have gone through that @ least once...!!! some ppl always judge that way,..others know that their r biased by sth so they try to avoid judging that way....!!!
one of the expressions describing that way of thinking is "Halo Effect"....it's known by diff. approaches ,...but from the personality & human relations point of view it's defined as :
positive or negative opinion about a person based on an impression formed from performance in one area. ie: it happens when we draw a general impression about an someone based on a single characteristic, all else can be ignored because the one bright or significant personality trait.
for example :
a person can judge another as trivial just coz he wears unordinary clothes or as an extremist just coz he is with a beard
an interviewer might judge an applicant's entire potential for job performance on the basis of a single characteristic such as how well the applicant dresses or talks.
so it's all about 1st impression & how it can be so deceiving & so unfair to depend on ,...but unfortunately as i mentioned we are all biased somehow ,...no matter how old or open minded we r..., so it's gr8 for a person 2 feel the moment of judgment & overcome that halo effect,...coz it happens alot that the 1st impression turns out to be totally wrong.....!!!
BTW: i remembered that i was chatting with a friend i known since primary school,...& we were remembering when we 1st met,...so
i asked her : pousi we have known each others since 4th primary ,...right? 8-)
pousi : no ,...since 2nd but we got close in 4th....!
i asked : so do u remember ur 1st impression :D
pousi: yeah i first felt that u seem to be "tenka we shatra".... :) !!!
i said joking:" tenka" :@ ,...seems we r gonna lose each other :D
so we were joking & it was the 1st time to hear that from her :D
but after all i found out that even kids form 1st impressions,....& when they grow up they remain trapped in the halo effect judgements ......!!!!!
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I agree with you
but there are facts that can not be hidden , even with first look .
yes,dnt judge on apperance
loooool,ana enharda kont labes bamba(loooooooool) bas sure feh sabab 4 this colour;)
bas i feel zat mostly z first impression on someone is false,just w8 till u know&dnt judge on any till u know who's this person,he may b gr8 person bt dnt have enough money 4 exampe 2 be well dressed
7ad shafny bel bamba enharda??-looooooool:D-
mayb ppl feel that some traits r revealed even if they don't deal with each other,....but the prob. that some ppl depend on the halo effect in all their judgments ,...ya3ny be da2n yeb2a motadayen aw men another POV motashaded,....mesh mo7agaba teb2a mesh kowaysa,....mesh social awy yeb2a tenek,...labes brand names yeb2a gamed,....beyetkalem kelmeten fel den yeb2a she7',....sha3ro mankosh manfosh yeb2a hayef,....etc.
which is not true all the time & can't be a rule.....!!
loool @ el bamba,..monasba lel sana fe3lan :S....!!!
i jus learned 1 thing n now i BLV on it .......
NO JUDGMENT why i have to do so !!??
cuz be sure wheneva u did .... u r 80% mistaken ..... cuz u dnt c all the truth ! .. u just c wt u want to C .. LOL !!
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