Is it wiser for the person to show his anger when he gets bothered from a certain act esp. from ppl he deals with daily instead of keeping it inside...?!!
i asked myself this Q after a conv. with a friend when we were chatting & i told her that i was so bothered from sb coz she was kind of joking aggressively without realizing that it is a kind of insult not just for me but for others who were with me,... but as i always react i dnt have response in such situations coz i normally forget about it & think that it's not a big deal ,..after all she was joking,..& i keep acting towards her as if nth happened (almost)...!!!
so that's how i think about such issues,... it doesn't deserve paying attention ,..but my friend told me sth which made me ask the previous Q,..she said "why dnt u tell her decently u r bothered with that ...instead of keeping it ,..it's a matter of self esteem ,..u can't get bothered or hurt more & more without taking any reactions...!!!!"
mayb she had a point,..but i also still think that such issues doesn't deserve to stop @ & i don't consider them a matter of self esteem ,..i've never thought that way...!!!, ... in addition i find difficulty in blaming others (even if it's in a decent way) coz as i got bothered with sb's harsh way , i don't like to pay it back the same way ....!!!
anyway she made me think somehow in a diff. way,..but still i have the tendency to ignore such issues & to say nth...!!!
dunno...!